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“There is never only one way to get a project done; we are involved with a team of people who have different factions and can never agree on how to get something done.”, says one programmer.
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The programmers should be aware of all these phases to have solutions to common problems of the web applications.
There are low cost programmers ( as well as those who price higher for their services. For a fresher, the service pay is assumed to be lower for the fresher than those who are experienced. If you want to hire a programmer ( who is a fresher, you are to make sure your cheap programming issue can meet your need or not. If everything goes well, you can get a programmer who has solid communication skills and who can understand how logic flows and who can apply and translate that knowledge.
A programmer’s task is not so easy. He or she needs to be highly creative, and able to see perceptually what people want and can be able to generate a conceptual solution without seeing the actual product.
Modifying the pre-existing code, designing new products and applications, creating and testing those products, and discussing how a design is going to flow are some of the usual work patterns that a web programmer does every day.
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The best thing to do is to stay detached. It sounds simple but it may be difficult to do at first. Even though you had a good time with that person, it’s best to leave that memory in the past. Worrying and doubting will only lead you farther away from what you want. You would be surprised how beneficial it is to detach yourself. It sends a vibration to the Universe that you are fine with your life regardless if the object of your affection calls you or not. You will be more relaxed and confident—which happen to be two attractive qualities. You are in no worse situation than where you began. Your happiness will not be dependent on whether somebody calls you or returns your call. More often than not, that person calls you when you least expect it. That would be a nice bonus. There is a saying: “God’s rejection is His protection.” In other words, something better will come your way.
We all know that there is a feeling of excitement when single people meet someone that he/she is attracted to. The opportunity to spend time with the object of your affection is very hard to pass up. So when the object of your affection doesn’t call you in a timely manner, there is almost an immediate tendency to assume many things and jump to conclusions. A few emotions may surface —mostly negative. It’s easy to start thinking the worst such as: a) I must have said or done something wrong when we met, b) I probably sounded too nervous on the voicemail, c) that guy/girl probably didn’t think I was that attractive, or d) that person probably was already seeing somebody else and I’m being played. The fact is that there could be thousands of possible reasons why someone didn’t call you. And about 95% of those reasons may have nothing to do with you directly. It would be easy for anyone to paint the wrong picture of what has happened or to overanalyze the situation. The fact is that you really don’t know what is going on with the other person. And waiting by the phone certainly doesn’t help.
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The narcissist's thwarted logic goes something like this: "I am married/attached to this woman. Therefore, I am not allowed to be in any form of contact with other women which might be interpreted as more than casual or businesslike. This is why I refrain from having anything to do with women – because I am being faithful,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], as opposed to most other immoral men.
When inevitably abandoned by his spouse – the narcissist is veritably shocked and hurt. This is the sort of crisis, which might drive him to psychotherapy. Still, deep inside, he feels compelled to continue to pursue precisely the same path. His abandonment is cathartic, purifying. Following a period of deep depression and suicidal ideation – the narcissist is likely to feel cleansed, invigorated, unshackled, ready for the next round of hunting.
But there is another type of narcissist. He also has bouts of sexual hyperactivity in which he trades sexual partners and tends to regard them as objects. However, with him, this is a secondary behaviour. It appears mainly after major narcissistic traumas and crises.
However, as the memories of the crisis fade, as the narcissistic wounds heal, as the Narcissistic Cycle re-commences and the balance is restored – this second type of narcissist reveals his true colours. He abruptly loses interest in sex and in all his sexual partners. The frequency of his sexual activities deteriorates from a few times a day – to a few times a year. He reverts to intellectual pursuits, sports, politics, voluntary activities – anything but sex.
He becomes completely immersed in "big projects", lifelong plans, a vision, or a cause – all very rewarding narcissistically and all very demanding and time consuming. In such circumstances, sex inevitably becomes an obligation,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], a necessity, or a maintenance chore reluctantly undertaken to preserve his sources of supply (his family or household).
In his quest to find new sources, he again embarks on ego-mending bouts of sex, followed by the selection of a spouse or a mate (a Secondary Narcissistic Supply Source). Then the cycle re-commence: a sharp drop in sexual activity, emotional absence and cruel detachment leading to abandonment.
Broadly speaking, there are two types of narcissists, loosely corresponding to the two categories mentioned in the question.
He keeps explaining to anyone who cares to listen that his other sexual partners are nothing to him, meaningless, that he is merely taking advantage of them and that they do not constitute a threat and should not be taken seriously by his spouse. In his mind a clear separation exists between the honest "woman of his life" (really, a saint) and the whores that he is having sex with.
This kind of narcissist is afraid of encounters with the opposite sex and is even more afraid of emotional involvement or commitment that he fancies himself prone to develop following a sexual encounter. In general, such a narcissist withdraws not only sexually – but also emotionally. If married – he loses all overt interest in his spouse, sexual or otherwise. He confines himself to his world and makes sure that he is sufficiently busy to preclude any interaction with his nearest (and supposedly dearest).
Ostentatiously ignoring women other than his wife (a form of aggression) he feels righteous in saying: "I am a faithful husband". At the same time, he feels hostility towards his spouse for ostensibly preventing him from freely expressing his sexuality, for isolating him from carnal pleasures.
A painful divorce, a devastating personal financial upheaval – and this type of narcissist adopts the view that the "old" (intellectual) solutions do not work anymore. He frantically gropes and searches for new ways to attract attention, to restore his False Ego (=his grandiosity) and to secure a subsistence level of Narcissistic Supply.
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He then become a satyr (or a nymphomaniac): indiscriminately engages in sex with multiple partners. His sex partners are considered by him to be objects - sources of Narcissistic Supply. It is through the processes of successful seduction and sexual conquest that the narcissist derives his badly needed narcissistic "fix".
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With the exception of the meaningful women in his life, he tends to view all females in a bad light. His behaviour, thus, achieves a dual purpose: securing Narcissistic Supply, on the one hand – and re-enacting old,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], unresolved conflicts and traumas (abandonment by Primary Objects and the Oedipal conflict, for instance).
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Sex for the narcissist is an instrument designed to increase the number of Sources of Narcissistic Supply. If it happens to be the most efficient weapon in the narcissist's arsenal – he makes profligate use of it. In other words: if the narcissist cannot obtain adoration, admiration, approval, applause, or any other kind of attention by other means (e.g.,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], intellectually) – he resorts to sex.
Somatic narcissists tend to verbal exhibitionism. They tend to brag in graphic details about their conquests and exploits. In extreme cases, they might introduce "live witnesses" and revert to total, classical exhibitionism. This sits well with their tendency to "objectify" their sexual partners, to engage in emotionally-neutral sex (group sex, for instance) and to indulge in autoerotic sex.
Are narcissists mostly hyperactive or hypoactive sexually and to what extent are they likely to be unfaithful in marriage?
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His reclusion insures against a future hurt and avoids the intimacy that he so dreads. But,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], again, this way he also secures abandonment and the replay of old, unresolved, conflicts. Finally, he really is left alone by everyone, with no Secondary Sources of Supply.
The cerebral narcissist does not enjoy sex and by far prefers masturbation or "objective", emotionless sex, like going to prostitutes. Actually, he uses his mate or spouse as an "alibi", a shield against the attentions of other women, an insurance policy which preserves his virile image while making it socially and morally commendable for him to avoid any intimate or sexual contact with others.
The exhibitionist sees himself reflected in the eyes of the beholders. This constitutes the main sexual stimulus, this is what turns him on. This outside "look" is also what defines the narcissist. There is bound to be a connection. One (the exhibitionist) may be the culmination, the "pure case" of the other (the narcissist).
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Some narcissists prefer "complicated" situations. If men – they prefer virgins, married women, frigid or lesbian women, etc. The more "difficult" the target – the more rewarding the narcissistic outcome. Such a narcissist may be married, but he does not regard his extra-marital affairs as either immoral or a breach of any explicit or implicit contract between him and his spouse.
The narcissist is likely to perfect his techniques of courting and regard his sexual exploits as a form of art. He usually exposes this side of him – in great detail – to others, to an audience, expecting to win their approval and admiration. Because the Narcissistic Supply in his case is in the very act of conquest and (what he perceives to be) subordination – the narcissist is forced to hop from one partner to another.
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